By Al Felder Children need to learn to serve others. A child naturally sees life through his own wants, needs, feelings, and desires. He notices when he is hungry, tired, bored, disappointed, left out, or treated unfairly, but he must be taught to notice the needs of others. He must learn that life is not only about being served, entertained, protected, and provided for. He must learn to help, give, encourage, work, sacrifice, and think beyond himself. Service is not merely a

By Al Felder Children need to learn self-control. Self-control is the ability to govern desires, words, emotions, actions, appetites, and impulses according to what is right. It teaches a child that he does not have to obey every feeling, say every thought, satisfy every desire, or react to every irritation. Without self-control, a child may become ruled by anger, laziness, appetite, entertainment, impatience, selfishness, or pride. He may learn to do whatever he feels in the

By Al Felder Children need to learn how to handle correction. No child grows in wisdom without instruction, warning, discipline, and reproof. Correction is not pleasant in the moment, but it is necessary. A child who cannot receive correction will struggle in the home, in school, in work, in marriage, in the church, and most importantly, before God. The Bible says, “Whoever loves instruction loves knowledge, but he who hates correction is stupid” (Proverbs 12:1). That is plai