By Al Felder Children need to learn contentment. They are growing up in a world built around dissatisfaction. Advertisements tell them they need more. Social media shows them what others have. Entertainment teaches them to chase attention, experiences, possessions, and approval. Comparison begins early, and when it is not corrected, it can grow into envy, greed, resentment, ingratitude, and constant unhappiness. Contentment is not natural; it must be taught. A child may belie

By Al Felder Children need to learn how to handle anger. Anger is powerful. It can affect words, actions, judgment, relationships, and spiritual decisions. A child who is not taught to govern anger may learn to shout, insult, strike, blame, threaten, withdraw, destroy, or seek revenge whenever he does not get his way. Parents must not treat uncontrolled anger as merely a personality trait. Statements such as “He just has a temper,” “She is strong-willed,” or “That is simply h

By Al Felder Children need to learn forgiveness. They will be hurt, disappointed, and treated unfairly. Siblings will offend them, and friends will fail them. Others may speak carelessly, act selfishly, break promises, or refuse to apologize. If children are not taught how to deal with hurt, bitterness can begin early. Forgiveness does not come naturally. The natural response when wronged is often anger, retaliation, blame, avoidance, or the desire to make the other person s