By Al Felder Conflict reveals the heart. It is easy to speak kindly when everyone agrees. It is easy to be patient when no one frustrates us. It is easy to sound spiritual when the conversation is calm, but when tension rises, feelings are hurt, someone misunderstands us, correction is needed, or we believe we have been wronged, the real condition of the heart begins to show. Jesus’ Golden Rule doesn't disappear in conflict. He said, “Therefore, whatever you want men to do to

By Al Felder Compassion is easy to admire. Most people like the idea of being compassionate. We speak well of people who care. We appreciate tenderness when we are hurting. We value those who show up in difficult seasons, but biblical compassion is more than feeling sorry for someone. It is love that moves toward another person’s burden. Jesus did not merely notice suffering. He responded to it. He saw the weary, the grieving, the sick, the sinful, the hungry, the lonely, and

By Al Felder Some people think courtesy is too small to be spiritual. They think of it as manners, etiquette, or personal preference. Saying “thank you,” speaking kindly, holding a door, listening carefully, cleaning up after yourself, respecting someone’s time, and being mindful of others may seem like small matters compared to larger questions of faith. However, Jesus’ teaching reaches into the small places. He said, “Therefore, whatever you want men to do to you, do also t