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By Al Felder Christians are commanded to defend the truth. False teaching must be corrected. Sin must be confronted. The gospel must be protected from distortion. Silence is not always an expression of peace; sometimes it is a failure of courage. However, the duty to defend truth does not give Christians permission to become quarrelsome. This distinction is especially important in an age of podcasts and social media. Online discussions often reward the quickest response, the

By Al Felder “I’m just asking questions.” The phrase sounds harmless. Questions are normally associated with learning, investigation, and honest inquiry. Asking a question can be an important first step toward understanding the truth. However, questions can also be used irresponsibly. A person may raise a damaging possibility without providing evidence. He may suggest that someone has acted dishonestly without making a direct accusation. He can repeatedly connect unrelated fa

By Al Felder Not everything we consume has the same effect on us. Some food nourishes the body, providing what it needs for health, strength, and growth. Other food may satisfy an immediate craving without supplying anything of lasting value. It may taste good and leave us wanting more, but it does little to strengthen us. The same principle applies to religious teaching. Some teaching nourishes faith. It helps us understand Scripture, strengthens our trust in God, exposes si

By Al Felder The internet has given Christians access to more religious teaching than any previous generation could have imagined. Sermons, podcasts, videos, articles, and social media posts are available at every hour of the day. This can be a great blessing when faithful teachers use these tools to explain Scripture and encourage godly living. However, greater access to religious content does not guarantee greater spiritual understanding. Sometimes it produces the opposite.

By Al Felder Parents teach many important things. Children need to learn obedience, truthfulness, kindness, responsibility, modesty, self-control, gratitude, prayer, worship, work, forgiveness, and respect for authority. They need to learn how to choose friends, guard their hearts, receive correction, serve others, and stand apart from the world. They need to learn about sin, salvation, death, judgment, marriage, the home, and the church. All of these lessons matter, but if w

By Al Felder Children need to learn to love the truth. It is one thing to know the truth. It is another thing to love it. A child may learn Bible facts, memorize verses, answer questions correctly, and repeat what his parents have taught, yet still not develop a heart that truly loves what God has revealed. Parents must aim deeper than information. The goal is not merely for children to know what is right, but to desire what is right. They must learn to value truth more than

By Al Felder Children need to learn God’s design for marriage and the home. They are growing up in a world that is deeply confused about marriage, family, male and female, commitment, purity, authority, and love. Many people treat marriage as temporary, redefine it according to culture, enter it casually, leave it carelessly, or reject God’s order altogether. Parents must teach their children better. Marriage is not man’s invention. The home is not a social experiment. Male a

By Al Felder Children need to learn how to worship God. They need to learn that worship is not entertainment. It is not a weekly habit performed without thought. It is not a time for man to redesign what God has commanded. Worship is reverence offered to God according to His will. Parents should teach their children early that God cares how He is worshiped. Many people speak as though sincerity is all that matters. If someone means well, enjoys it, or feels close to God, they

By Al Felder Children need to learn respect for authority. This lesson begins in the home, but it reaches far beyond the home. A child who learns to respect rightful authority is being prepared to respect God’s authority, parental authority, civil authority, congregational leadership, and the responsibilities that come with marriage, work, and daily life. Respect for authority is not popular in a world that often celebrates self-will. Many children are taught, directly or ind

By Al Felder Children need moral clarity. They are growing up in a world where right and wrong are often treated as matters of opinion. Many people speak as if truth changes with culture, morality changes with feelings, and each person has the right to decide for themselves what is good. However, parents must teach their children something far better: right and wrong are determined by God. This lesson must begin early. Children need to know that some things are right because

By Al Felder Responsibility is not learned all at once. It is formed through daily instruction, correction, expectation, and practice. A child learns responsibility when he is taught to finish what he starts, tell the truth, care for what has been entrusted to him, accept correction, admit wrong, keep his word, and understand that choices have consequences. Parents should not wait until children are nearly grown before teaching responsibility. By then, many habits may already

By Al Felder Obedience is one of the first lessons a child must learn. Before a child understands many of life’s deeper responsibilities, he must learn to listen, submit, and do what is right. This is not merely a matter of household order. It is spiritual training. A child who learns proper obedience in the home is being prepared to understand authority, responsibility, discipline, and ultimately obedience to God. The Bible says, “Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for

By Al Felder Children are growing up in a world filled with voices. Some voices come from friends. Some come from teachers. Some come from entertainment. Some come from social media. Some come from culture. Some come from their own desires. Every voice is trying to shape how they think, what they value, what they believe, and how they live. That is why parents must teach their children one of life’s most important truths: God’s word is the final authority. This lesson must no

“Submitting yourselves to one another in the fear of God.” — Ephesians 5:21 In today’s world, the idea of submission is often misunderstood and maligned. It is labeled as oppressive, outdated, and even dangerous. Whether it’s within the home, the church, or society at large, submission is rarely viewed as a virtue. Yet the Bible presents it as a foundational principle for the Christian life—modeled perfectly by Jesus Himself. The True Meaning of Submission To submit is to yie